Reflections of the past year

Ten Things I've Learned in a Year's Time

10. Never before has my independence and involvement been so important. I live my own life, and I'm defined by what I do, not by who I spend my time with.
9. But even the most independent sometimes need a little help every now and then--and that's okay.
8. I can only accept credit and blame for what I do, not for what others do.
7. Direct action is the best solution. Ignoring a problem will not make it go away, and some people just won't get the message through anything other than direct and straightforward words. I've been an active activist for four years now, but it's only now that I've realized the importance of this.
6. Patience might be a value I should take some time to acquire. While direct action is important, sometimes results will take a while. But they are worth it. I know I need more time to fully recover, but I have come a long way.
5. Words only become true when I completely believe them.
4. I don't have all the answers, and I can't take responsibility for everything.
3. I can find ways to alleviate my own problems by helping others.
2. It is completely possible to learn to trust and love all over again.
1. I am not to blame.