Really?

All names and identifying information have been changed, but really, how do you go through life so that an exchange like this happens??

Me: It's important to speak up when you don't agree with something, otherwise how does it change?
Denyse: Well, I'm still getting used to speaking up.  Before, I just thought that when I didn't agree, it was a problem on my end, but apparently, it's a problem for more people than just me.
Me: No, no, some things are social issues and not just because of something you did or didn't do.  The personal is political, you know.
Denyse: The personal is...the personal is political.  The personal is political!  Ooooh...that's brilliant!  I love it!  Did you make that up, Alex?

HOW DOES ONE GO THROUGH LIFE WITHOUT HEARING "THE PERSONAL IS POLITICAL"? 

That's, like, downright un-American!  That phrase is way older than me!

I pity the folks who didn't major in women's studies!